StrawberryBlonde

Wow, Day Walker! Very insightful! I guess when it boils down to it that's really what it is. While it's great to be told you're hot all the time, I want someone who likes me for me, not the externals.

I definatly think she has some level of interest, or she wouldn't have reacted that way. If you're really interested, I would do my best to run into her again in the next few days, and then go with the coffee suggestion. That's a nice, casual, friendshipy way to get to know her a little better.

Thank you, everyone. I apologize for my first vague post, I had been out at a bar all night and came home rather drunk and depressed. I really am a pretty together girl, except when it comes to relationships. I don't want anyone to think I jumped in bed with this guy and that's my regular MOD. I've actually been friends with him for about 8 months, and we are in the same social circle, so we're out together all of the time. The reason I feel so foolish is I've been down this road before, and I know better. It's been a long time since I moved so hastily to bed with someone, I guess I was hopeful that this was different, but I've been harshley reminded to stick to my own rules. Thanks again everone for snapping my head out of the clouds!

whatever, so I've had a crush on this guy for a while, and last week we finally slept together( after a few nice makeout sessions, in public). It was AMAZING!! any way, I've only seen him briefly since then, ( last Wednesday) and saw him unexpectedly tonight, So me, in an uncharecteristic bold move, I ask him if he wants to follow me home. He says "No. he wants to stay local tonight" But says he wants to see me on Wednesday, and kisses me. Also I find out he's been seeing some girl for 2 days; which is less time then I slept with him. I feel like a fool, any advice? Anyone?