My boyfriend and I have been together for the past 4 years and we have a 1 year old son. Problem is that I am in love with his brother who has told me that he wouldn't let himself fall for me and that although he did like me at one point, it was a big mistake. 2 years ago, we messed around for a little while and about 3 months ago we messed around just one day.. and then he told me that he wouldn't let himself fall for me. I love the guy I am with as a friend and I think he is a wonderful guy. I feel horrible for not being in love with him but I cant help my heart. I love his brother and don't know what to do. I feel like it's a lose-lose situation because although his brother and I were together for a little while.. I don't think he would want to do something again. But when I spoke to his brother about "us", he seemed like he was good with us being together (agreeing that he would spend time with me and hang out) but then he would all of a sudden be like.. no no no.. I cant.. what should I do… am I a loser for falling in love with the wrong person.
