jkelly1979

Alright guys, First, Thank you so much for the honest advice. I appreciate it and have taken it to heart. I talked to the POO FACE today and told him of my moral/ethical delimma and ahe assured me that he would in no way come after me for this..that he has made his bed, and still feels he must make it up to me. I think I'm gonna ask for a trip to Hawaii....any thoughts?

Exactly, I just want him to have a tangible reminder of his lies and deception.

You can ask me anything you need to know to help you help me

....besides the supposed guilt he'll live with.

Thanks for the responses, oddly enough, I do not seek vengence against him and I think telling her would be an act of vengence. I just don't think I can let it go without him having to suffer.

Ok, Long story short.... I met a guy online ( me in Texas, he in illinois), began a great relationship, and he came to visit many times. The relationship ran its course and I finally ended it after 2 1/2 years because of his non-commital. Well, after doing some not-that-out-of-the-normal-psycho-exgirlfriend stuff, I cracked his email password and discovered he had another woman. After confronting him, turns out he had been married for 6 years. I want to tell her, but he has made it clear that he is willing to pay for my silence. I am still young, and I will get over it, telling her would ruin his life....should I take advantage of this? If so, what is just and fair? jkelly1979