Hi All,
Recently, my guy of 2 years discovered I did some very bad stuff during the first year of our relationship. I was with a few other guys, and he found out about one of them. He told me I needed to tell him everything. So I've told him about everything that ever remotely happened that he would disapprove of. We've had so many talks about trust and honesty now that I know I don't want to ever do any of those things again.
Twice now, I've asked him, looking into his eyes, if there's anything he's done in our relationship that I need to know about. He's told me 'No -- Some people don't cheat and get around'. That was a blow to me but I guess I deserved it after cheating on him.
Long story short, I found out he'd been emailing people last year, from January - June, maybe longer, when my infidelities happened, and sending them pics of himself, seeking hot oral fun, etc. Whether he actually did anything after these emails I'll never know. I know about these emails and he doesn't know I know. I've been jumping through hoops to earn his trust back, yet he can't be flat out honest with me. He wants me to go to counseling for infidelity. What should I do...I mean the emails are his private emails, but they contain that information. I have no clue what to do. It's not like I'm going to leave him over the emails, becaus e I wronged too, but I admitted to it and didn't try to cover it up, when asked.
What should I do?!?!?!
Thanks in advance.
