For seven years my stepbrother sexual abused me and now at 26 I am tryign to deal with it but I need desperately to leave the family system. I am seeing a therapist and he agrees. Especially since they live and work in my locale and they even have keys to my apartment because our parents own it. How do I escape, I am trying to buy a house because I need to be awya from this family and I can not image living in another apartment for fear of them having access to it again without my knowledge or get access. I want to get out and I have not told any family member not even my biological mother. Trying to leave my family without letting this out, is hard because they will not leave me alone. How do I resceptful tell them to leave me alone without letting out my secert.
