brokenheart73

ill probably tell her the truth. ie i dont trust her any more and love is based around trust.

she said she couldnt believe i accused her of lying... i just hung up after that - im done with ldr's - there r plenty of girls in my city... its a pity this has happened cos i thought she really loved and respected me. a month ago she was even talking of moving down here to be with me...

That's what I thought too. She was trying to cover it up. I have ended it.

Hi, I have a trust issue with my girlfriend - we are having a long distance relationship. We talk every night on the phone, she tells me she loves me and has never felt this way about anyone before. We have been together for about 4 months or so. 2 weeks ago she broke some rather shocking news: 1. She has organised a long weekend away to a retreat in the mountains alone. 2. She is planning on going to Europe for 2 months later in the year alone. About a month ago, we were planning on doing these two things together and she was very happy to spend time together. She was planning on taking me away to a retreat in the mountains on my birthday later this year. All of a sudden she doesn't want me to come. What do I make of this? Anyway, last week I asked her about which retreat in the mountains she will be staying at. The response I got was "you ask too many questions". I asked again yesterday and got the same response "you ask too many questions". She finally revealed the name of the place. I was planning on sending a gift her direction to the place where she would be staying, only to find out the name of the place doesn't exist in any telephone directory, or online directory. I then asked her what the address/suburb was of the place she will be staying at and she plainly refused to tell me. Is she cheating on me? I don't feel I can trust her any more. John.