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yes that does help, i guess im the one that calles the right amount of time..she calls more tho cause i dont have long distant on my phone so i ussually just text her or we email back and forth... she said if she lived in town we would be together. i just dont want her to lose interest. i am not being pushy at all but i guess im afraid that maybe im not doing enough.. who knows. i guess ill just see... thanks for the info

I WROTE A PREVIOUS TOPIC LISTED UNDER NEED INPUT.. WELL BASICALL THIS GIRL IM REALLY INTO THAT LIVES 500 MILES AWAY.. SINCE SHE LEFT FROM SEEING ME ON SUNDAY SHE SEEMS ALITTLE DISTANT AT TIMES AND OTHERS SHE DOESNT. I KNOW THAT THERE IS HUGE FAMILY PROBLEMS AT HER HOME TOWN SO THAT MIGHT BE IT. SOME PEOPLE ON THIS SITE HAVE TOLD ME THAT THE GUY AT FIRST MAY HAVE TO PUT IN THE EFFORT IN A LONG DISTANT THING.. I HAVE BUT I DONT WANNA PUT IN TO MUCH AND SMOTHER HER.. SHE IS SUPPOSED TO COME BACK IN A MONTH BUT WE HAVEN TALKED NEAR AS MUCH AS BEFORE THE LAST TIME SHE CAME.. I DONT WANT THINGS TO FADE OUT....SHE ALREADY KNOWS HOW I FEEL AND SHE FEELS THE SAME BUT I DONT WANNA PUSH THINGS.. WHAT SHOULD I DO????

THANKS FOR THE INFO.. THE MORE I THINK ABOUT IT IT COULD BE WORSE, AFTER ALL ITS ONLY ONE STATE AWAY. I GUESS ILL JUST PLAY IT BY EAR...SHE CALLES ME EVERYMORNING TO SAY GOOD MORNIN AND SEE IF IM AWAKE BUT I WISH SHE WAS THERE WITH ME... WHO KNOWS WHAT WILL HAPPEN.. HOPEFULLY GOOD THINGS WILL TURN OUT

i agree, thanks man.. the weird thing is that she is bad at letting me know how she feels. i can tell cause she has a sad look on her voice or she doesnt sound right on the phone.. i have to dig it out of her and when i do it usually is what i wanna hear but i just wish she would come out and tell me..when she is in town she makes most of the moves, when she is back at home i ussually do.. i feel im playing things right and i dont wanna rush but it just feels right.. my sisters met her on new years and they loved her and told my parents about her. they never do that. my friends also loved her... that is very important to me and she passed that test already...

I met this girl about a month ago that lives 500 miles away. We both work for the same company but in different states. We hit it off instantly, then after she left we talked everyday through email and phone. Even when she was on vacation. She then came down for new years and it was ten times better. It was like we were together. We have so much in common, and the attraction is mutual. If she lived in the same state as me i think we would definitely start something more serious. We have talked about how we feel but it sucks that we live in different states. Also she has a problem really opening up to people when she really likes them. It's like she is kind of afraid. We plan on trying to see each other at least once a month. Its hard, im sure but with in the month and the 2 visits Ive had from her she has already done and showed me more than my ex of 3 years did. She would buy me random things that have real thought to it and things I actually need instead of random crap... When we talk we always have things to talk about, before I always had trouble sleeping with someone else in my bed but with her I sleep like a baby, same goes for her. I'm not much of a phone person for too long yet we agree that we love to talk to each other... I really like her and can see something serious come out of it but I want to play the cards right but am not sure how to go about it. Help me out anybody....