Thanks guys....
I spose i know deep down that it will never work....i think part of me wants to protect her from the big scary world....shes quite naieve... compared to me....i went off the rails....seen life from the ova side of the tracks....just dont wanna see her get hurt....tho i spose....like me...she has to learn from her own mistakes..
Was especially hard as this is my 1st Xmas wivout her.....cudnt even bring myself to decorate the tree,,,,got all the decorations out....brought up a lot of memories....which is a good thing....cos i know i gotta deal wiv em...and stop tryin 2 block em out.Its hard tho...cos my family hate her...and all my mates r her mates....so i cant talk to my family or my mates about this...wivout them having their say...or passing stuff on....i really appreciatte the advice....nice to know ova people know how i feel....