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she has always seemed a little secretive. when her phone rings, she never picked it up. I felt suspicious about this and told her not to do that. She doens't do it anymore. it's still the small things she does tha tpiss me off.

I had to spice up the topic's title a little more because I'm sure there are a thousand post hust like this one. I do feel as if she met someone at work. I know my mind might be playing tricks on me but I don't want to accuse her of anything until I catch her. Also, she never told her ex-boyfriend that she was leaving him for another man. Does that make her a bd person?

I met someone at work while being in a relationship for about 4 years. She had a boyfirend as well but left him after a year into our affair. I left my girlfriend months after we were togtether. A few things to take into consideration - 1) she was very flirtaceous & naive at the time 2) she gets alot of attention from the men at work 3) the boyfriend she was with was her first and didn't know exactly how to leave him, very inexperienced with relationships 4) she was always known as the fat girl when she was younger, lost weight and looks incredible now. She mistakens men's bad intentions for "they're just being nice to me." She eventually left him because I threaten to leave her for another woman who I met while dj'ing. Granted, I know the relationship started off terribly but the attraction and friendhsip where all there and I feel as if I met her at the wrong place and at the wrong time. She is a great girl with a big heart who love me nowand had changed alot for me. My family loves her, my frineds love her but sometimes I qusestion my love because of what has happened in the past. We've discussed marriage and feel that I should propose to her in around a year. I would love to spend my life with her but feel deep down inside that she could be doing the same thing that she did to her ex to me. I've been having these insecurity issues for quite some time but don't want to show them to her. She has complete trust when I dj at night but for some reason I can't seem to trust her at her new job. One last thing, how will I ever trust her in the work force and outside of our relationships? Is it because she is so inexperienced with men that she lacks commen sense? Or is she some ho? How can I learn to trust her, it's been around a year that we've been together and I don't want to leave a great girl becuase of my insecurites. thank you in advanced.