yiyi22

Thanks ladies! I will definitely try to take your advise and just GO FOR IT! It's hard, though, cause I don't want things to be weird between each other if it doesn't work out later. I am also really worried about my other roommates feeling uncomfortable around us if anything does happen between us. I don't want to ruin our friendship. Deep down inside I know that she wishes she could just go for it too. I guess we will just have to wait and see which one of us is the bravest.

Thanks to everyone who responded to my last post. It helps to know that I am not alone. I took your advise and have been hanging out with this girl a lot. We had a party in our apartment last weekend and we flirted, held hands, and kissed twice- but the next day we both acted like it never happened. We also had a brutally honest conversation that night while we were both pretty drunk, and we confessed to each other that we were attracted to women. She told me about her first bisexual experience with a close girl friend from back home and I told her about the first time I kissed a girl. She explained that her friend wanted to go further, but that she stopped it because it was too akward- they had been friends for a long time and it was weird. I told her I had a similar experience with one of my good friends- and we both concluded that we wouldn't be able to experiment with good friends. We didn't, however, define our friendship. Have we crossed over into the "good friends" realm? Afterall we have only known each other for a little over a month. Would it be weird to experiment with each other? When we were holding hands later that night, I felt like she was holding back a bit. She used to joke about being a lesbian or jabout being bisexual all the time, but she doesn't do that anymore. What should I do? I think she likes me, but isn't ready or doesn't want to go beyond kissing every once in while when she gets drunk. I am so confused and frustrated!

My entire life I have been straight- well sort of. I have always felt an attraction towards women, but never to the point of actually doing something about it. I have had lots of sexual fantatsies that involved women, but would usually feel feel guilty and disgusted by it afterwards. Throughout my life, I've had several normal relationships with men and I enjoy having sex with men, but recently my attraction towards women has increased. I recently moved to an apartment with 3 other girls that I didn't know before, and since the first day, I have been really attracted to one of them. The weird part of it is, that she isn't even that pretty. We have very good chemistry and are constantly flirting with each other. She hasn't said anything officially, but I think she may be bisexual and attracted to me too. The other night the four of us went out and ended up in a gay club. I was a little uncomfortable at first, but after a few drinks I ended up kissing a few girls as well as my roommate (the one I have a crush on). It was just a few pecks on the lips, but it felt great. I have been dreaming about doing it again since, but I am afraid it was just one of those things that happen when your drunk. I have a date with a man that I really like and I am really attracted to this weekend, but I can't get her out of my mind. What should I do? I am definitely attracted to and love men, but I feel this enormous attraction towards this woman. I think I may be bisexual, but I am not sure. I am very confused. Sorry this is so long, but it's the first time I actually talk about it- much less admit to myself. Hope someone could give me some good advice.