My ex bf of over four years broke up with me this year. After we broke up we talked a bit on the phone now and then..but about a month afterwards he started to want to hang out with me again and see me. And when he did he would always tell me how much he missed me, and he would be so repectful of my feelings and very sweet and nice to me. Which is not like him..what i mean is..he was a good bf..but right before we broke up he was very rude to me..so it was unusual for him to treat me good again. But anyways just most recently for the past three weeks or so he acts like i'm his gf..like we hang out more often, stay over at eachothers house..and just act like we are together..even his friends think we are seeing eachother again by the way he acts around me..but i just don't get it..bc nothing has been discusssed..so i'm kinda lost ..after we broke up i started dating and he got mad at that...even what i wear he will joke saying cover up if i am revealing skin or if he thinks i look good..its kinda cute but at the same time i just don't know what to make of the whole situation. Is he just acting this way to hold on to me till someone else comes along..or is he regretting his decision...
another thing to point out is that when we first broke up he used to tell his friends he was not getting back with me and most recently he says perhap we will get back together (this is just what his friends have told me, as i'm also good friends with his friends)..i don't know i just find things strange..and i'm not sure what to do..i'm afraid to bring anything up bc i don't want to pressure him but at the same time i feel like i'm holding on and what if there is nothing to hold on to...i just feel i'm being pulled thru a loop...i don't know..what to think...it never really bothered me..until i was thinking last night then i just broke down in tears..i can't take it anymore..i'm just getting more hurt..
