fortunecookie595

hey all. its good to be back and posting again, i've been pretty busy.

but i have a problem. see, my problem is that im a happy person, i mean, well that doesnt sound like a problem i guess. but lately it seems like...im too happy. im always laughing, joking, and i guess i dont come accross as serious or believable. i talk to my friends a lot and its becoming a problem in classes. people call me "hyper" or "spacey" a lot. i dont act hyper or excited on purpose. i dont do it for attention. but i realize that when i act this way, other people get very frustrated and annoyed with me and i dont realise my behavior until after. i've tried to to get a control over my constant trying to entertain people, but i just cant. i lose control over myself and become very bold and i sometimes say things i dont mean. its a real problem that i want to have control over. its even becoming a problem in my relationships with guys. i have been dumped for these kinds of things and its a turn off. if anyone has any avice for me to become calmer and more aware of my actions, id greatly appreciate it.

thank you.

teen suicidal has been WAYYYY up lately. dont become a victim.....please?

think of all the ppl who love u. count ur blessings. even if u dont feel loved, know that everybody here cares about you.

but as far as gifts, food, mags. what would help take ur mind off it?

when u get dumped, hurt, or ur ego is damaged by that guy or girl u've been seeing, what helps u get back on track? i wanna make a breakup recovery kit for my friend who just got dumped and i bet all u guys have some good ideas. bring it on!

my friend is having this problem, so im doing post for her. this is her story: my bf and i have been going out for 2 years, on and off. uh, let's call my bf "steve". lately, i've been more attracted toward this guy named. . ."john". John really likes my bff, though. I know i dont really have a chance w/ john, but i like him more than i like steve. If i break up with steve he would be broken hearted. Should i break up with steve and pursue john? or should i forget about john, and stay with steve?

-sally

if u dont really think u need it, then dont get the meds! unless the acne REALLY bugs u, then no. anyways, it mite dry out ur skin and make things worse. hope it works out.

seriously- i dont think he likes u.

i think this will be an interesting topic. when u have a girlfriend, what things does she do that make u really love her, or make u think again about her? examples- she calls too often, she seems needy. . . or u love her smile, she understands ur point of view. be specific.

just remember that u always have the power. tell urself that ur beautiful, and stand up staright. and look him in the eye. u want to appear courageus. besides, he wants to meet u. and he's younger so he's probably the one intimidated. i really hope it works out. good luck.

ok, she obviously has a lot of problems. and i think maybe she has a lot of stuff to work out. if i were u, i would offer to help, but stay on the sidelines until she asks you for it. and please dont try to get too invovled in her issues if they seem to be very personal. this could turn into conflict. also, dont get so caught up with her problems that they become your own problems. u may not kow what you're getting into. let her decide if she needs your help, but by the looks of it, i dont think she wants too mush contact right now. i hope that helps.

look, this girl probably still likes you, she probably just wants to keep the communication lines still open, so if she does decide to come back, u'll still be on good terms. but she might have said that she "feels presure from responsibilities and bickerings" and to girls that means, "i dont want to have any responsibilities w/ YOU" but, she says she still loves u, hmm, did she say she loves you, or shes IN LOVE with you. maybe she just wants u to want her more. AGH! now im overanalyzing things. whoops. okay. just give me some more details.

thx, u guys. im about to call the guy from summer school. ugh, wish me luck!!

thx u guys. i just like that u understand that i am fairly young (16), and u dont make me sound like i dont matter.

lol. again, the fact that we went out for only a week was kinda the point. ya, i guess i kinda figured he didnt want to date ME. but i guess the fact

is- most ppl in my grade who are dating have relationships that last at least a few months (minimum) i hope that im doing the right thing. thx 4 ur advice. I LOVE THIS FORUM PLACE THING.

i dunno, i guess i want what i cant have, ya know? its like, i dont really want to trust him, but i do. its hard to explain. oh, and i dont want to ask him to the dance. i want to invite the guy i dated from summer school to the dance.

AGH!!! REPLY!!!!!!!!!

[qoute]if any1 can help me. . . all this summer since june, I've liked this guy who is my bff's (nancy)neighbor. And he liked me off and on. He kept trying to ask me out, but i told nancy to tell him NOT to ask me out because i was sorta goin out w/ this guy from summer skool. anyway, since school started, we flirted a lot, and then i found out that he tried to kiss nancy. ahem? ok, then, like, a week later, he asked me out and i said yes. we went out for a week. then he dumped me, saying he didnt want a girlfriend. ugh, now he's going to the dance with this other girl and i feel horrible. im completely not over him, because i've really liked him for 2 years. now i wanna get back together with him, and the dance is in 3 days. please give some advice

 

ugh, ok. this is an update from my last post, im just reposting it so more ppl will c it.

I've been keeping No Contact with the guy, but it's not working, because i c him everyday, but we dont talk. he now has a girlfriend, which really makes me mad, because #1, im jealous and #2, he lied when he dumped me, using the worst cliche ever, "i dont want a gf". so now, im seeing if i can invite the guy i was dating at summer to the dance that is tomorrow. but im not positive he can come. id appreciate it if some1 would reply by later 2nite.

thank you

look, i know im young (16) and the fact that we went out for a week is kinda the point. if he asked me out, y would he break up w/ me after 1 week? any way. thx 4 all ya'll's advice. especially justplainsad. I hope i can put it 2 work.

fortunecookie

if any1 can help me. . .

all this summer since june, I've liked this guy who is my bff's (nancy)neighbor. And he liked me off and on. He kept trying to ask me out, but i told nancy to tell him NOT to ask me out because i was sorta goin out w/ this guy from summer skool. anyway, since school started, we flirted a lot, and then i found out that he tried to kiss nancy. ahem? ok, then, like, a week later, he asked me out and i said yes. we went out for a week. then he dumped me, saying he didnt want a girlfriend. ugh, now he's going to the dance with this other girl and i feel horrible. im completely not over him, because i've really liked him for 2 years. now i wanna get back together with him, and the dance is in 3 days. please give some advice.

please?