I have been lurking through these threads for a bit, and finally decided to join and post. I can see a lot of people here I can relate to. I was separated for over year from my H, and I read any book I thought might help me get my H back. In March, I discovered "It Only Takes One to Get the Ball Rolling"...I have not seen it mentioned here before. I found it just by luck surfing the internet, and it was a huge eye-opener for me. I promised myself, if i should ever get my H back, I would do my best to help others do the same. So, I guess I just wanted to turn you guys on to a book that helped me...H and I reconciled at the end of March It has some great advice and tips that got me going and I just wanted to share.
Thanks, and good luck to you all,
TogetherAgain