TogetherAgain

Hi Yrs...thanks for your post. The only tip I can give is not to do what I did and get with a good "program" from the start. I did all the wrong thinks early on in the separation, and actually made matters worse. I desperately wanted H's attention, but every thing I did only served to push him further away. After I read the book I mentioned above (sorry, not sure who wrote it, but it's a E-book), I was armed with a plan and encouraged that my marriage was still salvagable. All I can say, is it worked for me...the stuff that book taught me. I highly recommend it to anyone who wants to save your marriage. And, believe me, my H had an OW and a bad attitude. I had to do it all myself; I was the only one who wanted to stay married at the time. Good luck TA

I have been lurking through these threads for a bit, and finally decided to join and post. I can see a lot of people here I can relate to. I was separated for over year from my H, and I read any book I thought might help me get my H back. In March, I discovered "It Only Takes One to Get the Ball Rolling"...I have not seen it mentioned here before. I found it just by luck surfing the internet, and it was a huge eye-opener for me. I promised myself, if i should ever get my H back, I would do my best to help others do the same. So, I guess I just wanted to turn you guys on to a book that helped me...H and I reconciled at the end of March It has some great advice and tips that got me going and I just wanted to share. Thanks, and good luck to you all, TogetherAgain