catballoo

Hi, I have a boyfriend who is (to sum it up) great!!!! I do have on issue though, and it's that he masterbates behind my back. I have told him that it's okay to masterbate, but I would also like to be on the recieving end of all the action once in a while... I suspect that he is masterbating when I fall asleep. My question or issue is that I'm unsure as to whether I should be upset or just forget about it and do something about my needs on my own!?!?!