Sarah Whittle

I want to write a letter to you outlining all that I see that went wrong in the relationship and how I think we can work on those problems (individually and together) to become better and stronger as a couple. But I won't, because I don't think you would understand. I don't think you understand your part in failure of our relationship. I hope one day you do, maybe then, after both of us have healed, moved on, and worked on our insecurities - perhaps after that we can start over. But not before. As much as I want you back and as much as I want you to come running back saying that it was a mistake, it wouldn't work if we don't change and grow individually. I hate that, but it is what is. So here I am, avoiding contacting you by posting on a board with other people who know exactly how I feel. I hope you are well and that one day this won't be so hard.