azmiranda

The advice that you have given me is what I am doing so far. You really struck the nail on the head by saying that this is his flesh and blood, this is how I feel very much so. We have discussed it and it was kind of making my boyfriend angry at his son and I told him not to feel that way at all and that I do not want to come between them. He should be there for him first and our relationship will fall into place. I guess I will continue to just love him and support him as a Father and just let time take care of everything else. I just needed to vent a bit since today was the 4th of July and once again I didn't get to go to the party with him because of his son....sometimes I let it get me down. Thanks for putting it back in purspective for me.

Hi! I am quite frustrated and I do not know what the solution is...I go back and forth, back and forth. I met a fantastic, wonderful man 5 months ago. Everything has gone perfectly for us as far as the relationship goes. We click so well, are very happy together, many things in common, on and on.... The problem is he has one son, this child is 14 years old, my guy has been divorced since 2000 and he hasn't had a relationship and this kid is being a butthead about me so I have yet to meet him, if I come over the child will leave, if he wants to take me to an event such as today a 4th of July picnic the child will not attend. I say that since it has been almost 6 months here something needs to give and this is getting ridiculous and I am afraid it is going to start destroying our relationship. How long should I be patient considering this guy is perfect and I mean perfect for me in every other way?? Thanks, Azzz