I met a great guy online 7 months ago and we plan to meet soon.
We relate on just about every level and we are both seeking a long-term committed relationship. In fact, I have never met anyone whose outlook on life is practically the same as mine except for one thing.
Ok, here's my problem. Our conversations can get steamy and I'm ok with that but his fantasies are sometimes a tad bizarre for me and he mentions things he wants to do that I don't feel comfortable with.
I know men love this sort of stuff. Is it just male fantasy? I ask him where on earth does he find this stuff? Cosmopolitan Mag? Penthouse? Anyway, if it is just fantasy (it will remain that way and that's cool) but should I be worried if he's serious? How do I know for sure?
Should I say to him "Sorry, you've got the wrong lady if that's what you
really want in a sexual relationship and walk away? or bite my tongue and let him imagine all sorts?
Your advice would really help?