I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH MY FINIANCE'. WE STARTED TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE LAST AUGUST AND HE WAS VERY RESPECTIVE. WE GOT ENGAGED IN FEBRUARY, AND WERE PLANING A WINTER WEDDING. ABOUT A MONTH AGO, I CONFRONTED HIM ABOUT STARTING TO MAKE PLANS FOR OUR WEDDING AND HE GOT ANGRY ABOUT ME ASKING AND LEFT THE HOUSE TO COOL OFF. HE ARRIVED BACK HOME TO TELL ME THAT HE WAS NOT READY TO GET MARRIED YET. THAT HE WAS NOT THE MARRIAGE TYPE. WHEN I CONFRONTED HIM ABOUT WHY WE ARE ENGAGED, HE ANSWERED TO GET USE TO THE IDEA OF GETTING MARRIED.
I AM IN A STATE OF CONFUSION REGARDING HIS REACTION. I AM SAD AND DEPRESSED MOST OF THE TIME, NOT KNOWING WHERE MY FUTURE LIES WITH HIM. LOOKING FOR ANSWERS ABOUT HOW TO ADDRESS THIS SITUATION WITH HIM AND TO GET HIM TO COMMIT. I KNOW THAT HE LOVES ME.
