About 2 months I moved to the states. When I first started my job I met JOrdan ( lets call him so ). We had this instant connections.It just clicked right away from the moment we introduced each other and the girl who trained me had no chance doing that anymore as he took right over and gave no one else a chance to. JOrdan was also kinda new as he moved here from another state like 4 month ago. When he told me that he was going to church every saturday night I was kinda surprised cos he didnt looked like it. So he invited me the next saurday to come with him. Ever since then we go together to church and also spend a lot of time together experiencing the City and surroundings.WE have a lot in commen characterwise and also what we like, dislike and how we see our future, what is important to us and so on... This all matches perfectly.. WE celebarted christmas together at friends and exchanged christmas presents. WE also almost wrote the same stuff on our christmas cards which where very deep thoughts about each other and our friendship.Coworkers are already wondering if there is something going on.. cos at work we are constantly together.Even the other day we were in this store and the cashier said to us that we look good together. ( By the way not the first time we were told so ) Also we do flirt with each other.There si just one thing.. he is a student and has little time as he is very serious about it.We both have been hurt very badly in prior relationships and we are both not into dating. WE both want a real relationship with future. He only says that he is happy single at the moment and that he needs to be best friend with his future girlfriend.. as how can you be in a relationship but not being best friends with your partner. This is exactly how I feel as well...Now is my problem that I have fallen for him completely and I dont know how I should tell him as I am scared that it might have a negative impact on our friendship.. I value his friendship and he is really important to me as a friend.
Can someone please help me out here?? I really need some good advise!!!
Thanks
