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yes its exactly what i want and last night we talked and i said look whats the deal here i said i cant pretend like i dont want to be with you so you need to let me know because this just doesnt feel right to me and she said well i just cant be with you the way i would want to right now and i was like fine and we went on talking and she said lets get together and talk about this face to face and i said what is it you cant say on the phone that you can say in person and she said well we really didnt get to talk about it when we saw eachother because we just kinda coming clean about alot of stuff and she was like wanting together on friday to talk but im seeing her tonight at my drummers show for his other band so i dont know if or whats going to happen but i know i love her can anyone give me any advice before i have to see her should i say somthing to her about it tonight or wait til friday and what do you think she's going to say i know she's not going to want to be with me

Me and my ex are talking again and its nice we have had sex and probaly will again but she had a boyfriend after we broke up i had a girlfriend we arent with either of them now and she has said on many occasions that she just doesnt feel it like that she says she loves him as a friend but thats really it and he is attractive phyiscally but that with me she still loves me is attractied to me physically and that we click just talking which she says doesnt happen with him and that there cultures are too diffrent. Now i know i love her and this is what im confused about is that she says she doesnt know for sure if she's supposed to be with me and that she is just not going to rush or over analyze which i think is good because that was part of our problem in the first place im writing this because i just want to see if anyone has an opinon if this is real because looking at her in her eyes and for once not getting a bad feeling from what she's saying is very hopeful for me so is hanging out and stuff a good idea the other guy lives in another state and they didnt talk for 3 days until she called him and got mad at him and said he didnt even pick up that she was mad and said yeah that ones getting old real quick what should i do? I love her.

My ex and i talked last night after she got home and we both ackowledged the fact that we still in fact love eachother and that we wanted to spend time as friends to get to know the real people we both are so that this sort of things ends we both came clean on alot of stuff we didnt tell eachother even when we broke up so i feel pretty good about the subject now i think that this is as it needs to happen we both expressed our concerns about what we wanted and we were being real about our intentions for going into this relationship. we both realized that there were real things there before but now we have a better understanding of who we are as individuals and realized how good we would be together now which is signifigantly better than before just because there is no lying about our likes and dislikes example i didnt tell her i read books i said i hated books which was a lie i read all the time and the reason i lied about it is because i didnt want her to think i was a nerd as corney as it sounds it was things like that that killed that relationship we were hiding who we were from eachother because we werent comfortable in our own skins enough to put ourselves out there. Also we got back to business with our hopes and dreams and just as she said we just clicked all over again but this time we put out there how we wanted to be weve both always invisoned that the person we were to be with would be our best friend and the person we were in love with or were "boy friend and girlfriend" before we were best friends but we forced it after we were together and talked about all the things that a couple talks about for the future. So i gave her some books i had been reading one is called ishmail the other was peace is ever step both philosiphy type books to which both of us are very much into philosiphy and things like the natrue of reality and knowing that and reading some of my earlier comments i see that that was a very ignorant thing for me to say we're both complicated people and thats why we click and as complicated as we are its all there the physical the emotional attachment of love with eachother is still there so now its just like we're going with the tao of things i guess and her parents never got over the fact that i am by racial and she is white we're not worried about that right now because the people we are we can deal with it when the time comes now we're just focusing on eachother and being brutaly honest which other about all things and it works with simplicity and ease so in short thank you all and i will continue to post on other subjects to return the favor for all of your help and all points of veiw i received from starting this thread thank you again.

she just left and we talked and made love to eachother now im really confuesd because she said after she didnt know if she could be commited to me but says no matter who she's with she will always love me and that she doesnt plan anything but she is mixed up about this what do i do im very confused and not sure what im going to do now i realized i love her i mean it was like falling in love all over again with a diffrent person with a better person what do i do someone please help me.

i mention this because for me since this has happened the money thing stuff has got weird and i cant help but attribute alot of this to that because when people start acting one way you start to analyze what's diffrent about me so ive mentiond this a bit to try and get all factors and variables are out there so i can get some honest and realistic feed back i am very much myself but i cant help that people notice i have money and no job to go too and that they say i waste money on stupid stuff but i dont see it as wasting it etc things like that so by me posting these things i was just trying to be honest and i was being myself thats also part of who i am rich but i felt i put alot more than that out there then economical standing about myself i thought that in my post i communicated how much i care for this person but also while trying to keep myself from being too out there so as to not be in the line of fire if i was way off based anywho sorry for the confusion and i wont bother to ask anything else sorry if i irrated or annoyed anyone here thanks for your time and i apoligize again.

ok well i have to consider this i guess and please feel free if you still think its crap her parents are racist and her dad is a general cardiolgist no speacilist or anything she also had leukimia and they said that if she wanted to be with me they would take away her health insurance so we snuck around until she said she couldnt take it anymore so thats what happened she broke up with me because if she relapsed she wouldnt have health insurance now i can pay it though what do i do

i agree and thats not going to apply to just that all my friends have started acting extremly nice to me now and are more apt to do things with me now so i think im going to just leave them all alone and not have any friends. im going to stick to myself and other people who have there own money

so now what do i do i how do i bring this to a conclusion without elimatnating the possiblities and how do i know if she wants me back or not i need to know and be able to move on but i think its too soon and too casual for me to just ask i need to know though because this is really bothering me and makeing me feel thin and confused. someone help me

but im sick of tired of being alone and with people who arent on the same level of thinking as me and i want to believe its more than that.

ok now she was supposed to call me when she got off work to let me know if she was going to come over and watch a movie but instead of calling she just got online and i said hey but no response then her away message poped up and said brb i wish i never would showed my aunt her pictures from her portfolio should i sabatoage her chance now.

ok me and my ex broke up after almost two years in september, talked to her a month ago after i got rich and now she calls and says she wants to do somthing but everytime weve made plans and she supposed to call me she doesnt she's always late calling but is making refrences to having sex with me and flirting what am i supposed to do.