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Yes , he’s the one always going on vacations . He tells me I should find people to go away with . I thought people become a couple to do things together and want to share thing’s although people do things apart . Idk I feel like I’m always second to this man . I shouldn’t feel sad and lonely in a relationship or not good enough.

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I’m asking other peoples opinions

Just curious to know what others think . When married couples go on vacation separately all the time . With friends and not making plans to want to go together just interested in going with friends.

One of his best friends kept asking my friends if I would meet with him to talk ( I’m guessing to reminisce). I said ok then he asks which friend I would want to come with me . Then he said oh you’re working on your marriage I can’t . I’m so confused. I thought he wanted to talk about his friend. Then I thought is he just saying that so I won’t cancel and make it seem like he won’t be there . He was asking for months to talk to me . Everyone told him give her some time . I’m confused why would you go through all that trouble to back down . 🤔

Thank you everyone for your help

Yes I Agree

Yes I Agree

Well I did tell her I needed to think about it . She knows that I have no experience. The more I think about it the more I’m realizing that this is a huge responsibility for me . Although I would like to be able to help her that I would have to decline . Thanks for your help

Yes at his home . He was born with water on his brain

Hi! I was just wondering what you all think . I lost my job . I have a friend with a handicapped son . I never met her son before . She is looking for someone who can watch her son . She knows that I have been looking for work and thought of me which is very sweet . She said that she’s looking for someone to take him on walks . he needs bathroom help and help with food . He’s 22 yrs old . Her and I reconnected on Facebook she was my brothers ex . I also don’t know how he would feel about me working for his ex . Anyway I really could use the money . I have no experience with handicapped kids . I’m afraid I feel like it’s a huge responsibility. I would rather wait for something That I would have more experience in . Plus if it didn’t work out . I would not want to hurt our friendship but she’s offering me a decent amount of money to do this . I don’t know what to do

I can not believe I am writing another I lost my best friend to suicide letter but I am . He was the first person I spoke to when I woke up and the last person that I would text good night. I could tell him anything and everything he would never judge me . He knew how to get me to talk . I wasn’t someone who found it easy to talk to people but with him it was different. I am just wondering what people believe happens to our soul once we are gone . Everyone has different beliefs . I was hoping that he would come visit me or let me know some how that he’s still here . This hurts so bad and I’m trying to process the information and deal with it the best that I can .

Its definitely the money. I am working now but it’s not enough to make it on my own

I started a fulltime job about 6 weeks ago . I get home between the hours of 6:00 and sometimes 7:30 He was pissed off that I was putting laundry away and not heating up his dinner. I should have stopped what I was doing . I said we both work why can’t you heat up your dinner . I have a lot of other things to do and he said I don’t know what real work is only he works . I need to make him better dinners . Wow that jerk doesn’t appreciate anything at all as always. I’m *** and he’s important. F… him. He always make me feel like I’m a worthless piece of nothing. I’m so sick of him

They are sick of it . I feel like a hamster in a wheel going nowhere . My sister is confusing me . She’ll tell me to stay for financial reasons. Then I’ll hear from other people that she hates my husband and doesn’t want to influence me in anyway. That she wants this to be my decision. I keep saying why should I stay for the money . Then she says you need to figure this out . it can’t stay this way . Figure out how you can make it work out financially or fix your marriage. We went to counseling in the past . You can see how well that worked out . I can’t stand the constant degrading, the nasty text messages. On the 4th of July he tells me that he wants a divorce via text and now he wants to work it out . Ugh he’s driving me nuts