my wife found out that i had filled out a couple profiles on adult friend finder (sex) type websites. one i did 3 months ago and the other 8. both were on a lark. kind of a frustrated rant about not feeling attractive to my wife.
i never joined the site or communicated with anyone on it but i did fill out the profile. i was frustrated with the lack of sex that had been going on for a year.
i never had any intent of carrying it any further.
but she has kicked me out of the house and said there is no going back.
she is devastated and calls me every two minutes crying and telling me we won't get back together and i ruined her life.
i am shredded by all of this.
she has agreed to go see a counselor on monday with me.
any advice on all this?