This is my first time ever posting a message on the internet. Here's my story: We've been married 8.5 years, we are both in our late 50's. I found an email from my husband's lover and told him to move out the same day. He moved in with his 35 yr. old, 120 lb. never had children, from Thialand lover and her 78 yr old husband. They are swingers, so all three have sex together. They also go to clubs for swingers. Now that I have cooled off and been alone I am re-thinking divorce. We have talked about it and are going to go our own ways for a while. He has bought his own place so he's not living with them anymore, but they still swing. He doesn't know if the swinging lifestyle if what he wants or not. I am not disgusted by swinging I just don't want to participate. I'm looking for advice from anyone. Am I a fool for wanting him back? I love him very much and I believe he still loves me.
I'm not even sure how to view any answers, but I will figure it out.
