Im a single mum of a 2 year old, for the past 3 months Ive
been seeing this guy who is the best man I have ever met,
hes great with my daughter and we always go out to concerts
and pubs clubs etc. The problem is his ex, he goes to see
her once a week for a couple of hours. Not only that they
were together 4 years and split up 2 years ago when she got
pregnant to someone else through a one night stand. He
still feels sorry for her and she manipulates the situation
by sending him texts and calling him. He used to talk about
her loads and when I brought this up with him he stopped
and instead of calling her by her name he calls her "her
instead. Which isnt a great improvement. He says he loves
me, doesnt care about her, never wants to hurt me etc. What
I cant understand is All my exs are exs for a reason, for
one reason or another the relationship didnt work out and
thereforeeeeeee I dont see them any more.
I really love him, I havnt felt this way about anyone for
years, but whats to say in 5 years time he finishes with me
and goes back to her. I dont want to get hurt or let my
daughter see this bothering me. The other night she called
him at 2am ...whilst he was in bed with me.....do you see
my problem? Any advice would be most welcome.
He says hes "never been with anyone like me before. She would never do xyz"... He just cant stop talking about her Does anyone know why hes not with her?? He slept with her behind his last gfriends back also!! He told me this and says he just wants to be honest
