hey everyone, i actually have two sex-related questions. i apologize in advance for making a long post.
i'm 18 and my girlfriend is 17. we're been together for 8 months and we're very happy together. we're doing the long distance relationship with no problems, and for the past two weeks i've been home on holiday from university. here is the first issue that i'd like some advice on:
today my girlfriend mentioned something that got me thinking a little bit. she said that she was worried that our physical relationship was getting too predictable, or to a "same old, same old" kind of situation. basically, we start with making out, then get to petting and then clothing comes off and then eventually we're at 3rd base (i consider 3rd to be oral sex) and then we're done (we're not ready to have actual intercourse yet) we usually do this at my house, in my bedroom. she's right, it's practically the same thing every time.
so i'm curious as to how i can change this situation and break the monotony in our physical relationship. like i said, we're happy together and we communicate well, so i'm open to literally any suggestions: activities, places, anything. when she brought this up, i asked her if there was anything we could do to fix the problem but she didn't have an answer.
my second question is somewhat related i guess:
when we hook up, i usually "finish" through whatever means, and sometimes even more than once. however, she's never been able to have an orgasm. i definetly understand that in general, it's difficult for a girl to actually finish. she can get close, but then she says after a certain point she stops feeling anything down there, and sometimes it gets uncomfortable for her. i've tried fingering and going down on her and she enjoys both very much but for some reason stops responding after a few minutes of stimulation. is this common? more importantly, is there anything we can do about it?
