Hi guys, I just want some advice on what to do....
I've been going out with this girl on about 5 lunch, dinner, shopping and movie dates...
As I said before, I really like her, but she seems very contradictory in the way she feels towards me...
I call her a lot, but she has never called me even once and has only twice intitiated contact over email saying she couldn' t make it for a date. Everytime it is me who asks her out...
During the stuvac exam period, I had a date organised with her....she emailed me saying she needed more time to study....then later when I called, she asked me to go out with her friends on a different day (so I assume she is not 'busy' for her friends, but is too busy for me). This was during the exam period, where her excuse for not going out with me was because she was 'studying'....so quite contradictory...actually more like LYING to me coz she said she was busy for exams. Also during our dates, she gives me very mixed feelings...on one side she flirts a lot with me when she talks to me...and shows she does like me, but on the other, she hasn't even touched me...now I'm beginning to think she is just playing hard to get, not intersted or just playing with me. I'm also confused because she says she likes spending time with me, but yet she doesn't go out very much with me...
So yeh...seems to me she is not interested in anything past a friendship. Another thing is that I once went out with her best friend....but I don't know if that is a problem because we are all still good friends.
I am going out with her next week...and I was considering telling her how I feel about her. If she says 'no', that's ok coz I can move on....but if she says 'yes' - I will have trouble building a relationship because she is going overseas for 2 months for a vacation (summer holidays here in southern hemisphere). Do you think it is better I wait till she comes back from her vacatoin first? She also said she'll be intersted in taking dance classes with me as my partner when she returns....
so confused on what to do and just don't know how to interpret all this...
Plz give me advice
Thanks guys and girls
