I have a tough family dilemma which is effecting my mental health and my own life...
I have done well for myself and live alone in a large house. However during the Pandemic my two sisters both split from their partners (one with child), they both asked if they could temporarily stay with me which of course I said yes. I have been checking in with them regularly to see where they are up to with their plans and only charge a lower amount $300 per month rent each.
The problems:
Sister 1 - Met a new guy very soon after her 12 year relationship who she is still with, has a house deposit but works Part-Time, now says she can't afford anywhere on her own. Has a child. Doesn't clean or help out around the house much.
Sister 2 - Has a very well paid job but has only saved $1000 in the last year, has a drink problem and is still on/off with the same boyfriend. Very clean around the house.
There is a huge amount of guilt because I just don't see them moving on, I chose to charge cheap rent so that they could save for their own places, however they have just settled. The bills have gone up and I had spent $$$$ renovating before they moved in, a lot of damage and wear and tear is now being caused.
I started dating someone new however can't invite them for dinner as the house is always occupied.
I really don't know where to go from here...?