Never had one

[Daemoniel]

Hey, I'm a 14 yr. old girl, and I've never had an orgasm. My girlfriend lives a long way away and we cant see eachother. we've had cyber sex and phone sex and I masturbate, but I've never had an orgasm and I don't know how. I really want to find out how to have one. Please help

[skryler]

First of all, I am not a professional, but I have listened to LoveLines with Adam Corolla and Dr Drew for years. I know exactly what they would say. You're 14. It is more likely that you don't have an orgasm at this age than that you do. As bad as this sounds, you probably shouldn't worry about it. In fact, some women in their 20s can have a hard time with it. If you want to, try running the bathtub water on "yourself" and see if the high-powered friction can make you have one. I realize this isn't something you can do all the time but see if you can have it at all like this. Other than that, I'd say wait and it will happen with experience, time, or both. One last thing. You'll know it when you have it. Good luck! Hope I've helped.

[somedude]

haha i heard the exact thing on love line...but anyway your only fourteen? were has the time gone it seems like 14 is such a young age and i have grown so much. but wat the above said my help i heard the same thing

[Dubzuk]

i think that u just need to keep trying, when it happens dont worry u will know about it. good luck