why is it...

[cookie]

why is it some men (and women i guess) can only say what they feel when they have had a drink (arghh) am i supposed to be understanding that maybe this guy has trouble communicating unless he's drank himself silly or just give up given that 'he needs nobody' when hes sober. ](*,)

 

was so ready to call it a day, now after talking to him (he was drunk) i feel bad

[Serendipity1607307077]

Lol my boyfriend does that.....

I think that it depends on the personality of the person. Some people don't like confiding because they feel that it might make them seem like a weaker person... if you know what I mean..

[DN]

Alcohol lowers inhibitions so people feel more able to loosen up and confide things they would ordinarily keep to themselves.

[bhzmafia]

Im not a very trusting person generally, I have trouble saying things to people (even if I do really trust them) I think,because as a child I was teased alot, and I just always think that if some of the stuff that I want to say gets out, it will happen all over again.

When I drink, none of that bothers me... I dont overthink things, I just say what Ive been wanting to say for so long. Im a shy person, but I dont think any of my friends even know that because of how I hide it =S

[confused25]

The truth comes out when the person is drunk . . .

[Hyperia81]

en vino veritas!

[bhzmafia]

The truth comes out when the person is drunk . . .

Thats true... it just really sucks that alot of the time, the truth hurts