deviousj420 Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 So I have been with Mario for a lil over 2 years - Many posts on here about our relationship.... Anways, he does notappreciate me, doesnt ask how my day was, no longer tells me he loves me because I lied to him in JUNE of 2005!!, when i got a surprising 100% on my english paper he failed to congratulate me... I love him, I dont want to hurt him... BUt honestly, I can say I do not see myself being with him in the future, ( he said he hopes my cat dies soon cuz he was bpurring so loud last nyte) (he also gets mad if i talk to my girlfriend on the phone) hes kind of verbally abusive, but ive done my fair share of lying n stuff.... It hurts to let go, but more or less there is this other guy who is a cop, has ambition n i could actually see myself having a future with, we have been hanging out lately... i really like him! Since we have been 2gether so long I know its not really healthy for me to jump into another relationship but i guess what im lokin for in this posting is some advice or thoughts on leaving him, why i should, how, when... what to do withthis new guy..... its only me who makes my life so difficult.....](*,) Link to comment
robowarrior Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 His unability to forgive is his state of hell, but boy did you contribute to all of this , personally i think he has a low 'tolerance' of things to go wrong. That's a bit too harsh, along with his cat comments. I think its a good thing you leave, if he can't forgive you then you must exuse yourself from this relationship, maby one day he'll forgive you , but that most likely will be in a next life, and your life is too short to wait for that. thereforeeee, id give the cop a try , but no more stupid violations of trust ok? Because this guy will arrest you if you 'break the law' Link to comment
Momene Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 I don't know your full history but this post suggests that the relationship died a while ago.You should make a clean split before dating this other bloke. It sounds like you made mistakes and you need to learn from them. Link to comment
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