My ex IMed me...was this really on accident?

[Jonathon]

Hi,

 

I have just gotten home from a long day of bowling and attending a hockey game. I came back home and onto my computer to see that my ex IMed me, I had my away message on obviously.

 

She said "hi" and then said "sorry didn't mean to".

 

What should I think of this? Did she really IM me by accident? Or does she want to talk?

[smallworld]

My guess is she really wanted to talk, but felt like you were deliberately ignoring her when she didn't receive a response to her greeting. thereforeeee to save face she said "sorry didn't mean to."

 

If you still interested in her friend-wise or love-wise, let her know you're sorry if her feelings were hurt, but you were out when she IM'd you.

[Liquidius]

If she said it was a mistake - she probably meant it to be. Don't read into it. Leave it.