caliboy Posted June 3, 2003 Share Posted June 3, 2003 Why would a girl lie to a guy and tell him she's a virgin when she really isn't? Link to comment
Heretic Posted June 3, 2003 Share Posted June 3, 2003 Because most guys don't like "used goods". As well a lot of men are attracted to the "conquest" of a virgin, it's where no man has gone before. If you need more reasons I got plenty. Link to comment
Turboz Posted June 3, 2003 Share Posted June 3, 2003 I agree with Heretic. for some reason I get the impression that we are talking about your own situation caliboy. I can't help but think it's not really that big a deal. So what if she's not a virgin? - What does it matter? - If you feel that attracted to her does it really matter? - If it does then thats just putting your own desires before hers and that will put the relationship in danger. Just chill out. Ok, so she might be a quality used good, but who cares, she's still human - Don't miss out on a good thing because you have a problem with it. Link to comment
caliboy Posted June 3, 2003 Author Share Posted June 3, 2003 she lied to a guy I knew before her and I got close. she didn't lie to me about it, in fact when it came up between us, she told me she wasn't a virgin and told me that she slept with 2 guys before me (including the guy she lied to about being a virgin). it doesn't matter to me that she's not a virgin, cause i feel she's still quality (as long as there isn't a huge list of guys she's slept with). I'm just more concerned as to her lying about it and what else she'd lie about and to who. Link to comment
Heretic Posted June 3, 2003 Share Posted June 3, 2003 Well if you can't trust her you can't be in a relationship with her. Trust is key. What important to understand is SHE DIDN'T LIE TO YOU. In fact she trusts you enough to tell you she lied to someone else about something they felt was important. This says to me she will be honest with you. Don't mistrust her because of things she's done. People change. Link to comment
caliboy Posted June 3, 2003 Author Share Posted June 3, 2003 she didn't tell me she lied to that other guy, a buddy of mine did. Link to comment
Heretic Posted June 3, 2003 Share Posted June 3, 2003 Okay yikes... This doesn't sound good now... Ummmm I think the important thing to figure out is if you can put that behind you. If you can then good, if you can't then you guys shouldn't be in any SERIOUS relationship. Just try to understand her side of the story, ask her about it even, but be coy. Frankness could hurt and/or scare her away. Link to comment
caliboy Posted June 3, 2003 Author Share Posted June 3, 2003 ya it is scary, but the fact is she told me the truth about who she'd been with and didn't lie and tell me she was a virgin. I'll bring it up one day with her casually and see what she says. Besides it was over a couple years ago. Link to comment
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