NEBTNARG Posted May 28, 2003 Share Posted May 28, 2003 My girlfriend won't introduce me to her "male friends". An example we are out at a bar last night and she suddenly sees someone that she knows accross the bar. "I'm just going over to say high to a friend," she says. She returns several minutes later with no comment, and acted like I shouldn't be upset. I clearly stated that I wanted to be introduced to her friends; she said she was not used to a relationship like that and i was out of line to ask her. Please tell me if i am being too protective, or am getting walked over? Thanks Frustrated Link to comment
StillLoveHer Posted May 28, 2003 Share Posted May 28, 2003 You might as well lay down on a crowded side walk because your getting walked all over.. She wants to keep her options open incase some other guy comes along.. Link to comment
NEBTNARG Posted May 28, 2003 Author Share Posted May 28, 2003 That's the way I felt, she had me second-guessing myself, I appreciate your honest response, any suggestions? Link to comment
youngadult Posted May 28, 2003 Share Posted May 28, 2003 Well if you can't be content with that kind of relationship (which you aren't, it seems), then you should probably just tell her that if things don't change you'll have to leave. I don't mean it as a threat. I mean that it would be better for you to leave now a relationship to which your partner can't commit, than to be left, later, with a bunch of excuses and feeling like there is something wrong with you. She is not into it as she might have led you to believe. If I'm wrong, she will make an effort when faced with the prospect of you leaving. Otherwise, you'll do right to go look for a deeper, more "two-way" involvement elsewhere. The best of luck to you. Link to comment
dextro Posted June 14, 2003 Share Posted June 14, 2003 Yeah I like that response, she hiding you in case she have another opportunity or she is affraid of something try to figure it out dude. good luck ! Jeff l. Spiegel Link to comment
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