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[Karibo]

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Thank you for your post Karibo. I have a faint smile on my face seeing you call a 3 year relationship "long term".

 

It seems here that a long term relationship is one that one cannot get out of (unless one dies). It seems that life is that long term relationship (and it may also be called a 'serious committed relationship').

 

This relationship is between me and myself. Often, it seems, I am not happy/content with/within myself and go looking for an other to distract me from myself. And so I am looking for a long term relationship with an ideal other to hide/escape the long term relationship with/within myself.

 

But eventually no matter what relationship we consider ourself in, we always come back to the relationship: me with myself.

 

Me, myself and the ideal other are ideas. All ideas are the same idea: an ideal idea.