how do you overcome jealousy

[caliboy]

Just wondering if anyone has any tricks or methods for overcoming jealousy. Preferrably from a guys point of view (if that matters). Things to tell yourself when it sarts to surface. Ways to keep calm without getting quiet, distant and almost bitter/resentful at the other person. Any real life stories of overcoming jealousy. Any links or other resources. Thanks all for any help.

[caliboy]

I've come accross a couple references...

 

 

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[StarryEyes]

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Hope these help

 

StarryEyes O

[Sexychiick16]

i personally think...Theres always a good reason why we get jelous and it is usually a good reason...Jelously is so normal but it does aggervate those who try to go forth in their relationships...

[vitalcoaching]

Hi Caliboy

 

Check this article as well

 

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Good luck!

 

vitalcoach

[Cadence308]

People get jealous in response to a perceived sense of loss or a threat of a loss. It's a common emotion that all humans should feel at some time or another. If we don't then there's something wrong. Good luck trying to control it!

[somanaomi]

jealousy drives me crazy...i couldnt stand halle berry while i wad going out with my boyfriend, i absolutely loathed her. completely petty of course, but could never get rid of it. until now, when im not with him.