Girl I've liked for a long time

[scotman888]

Thanks everyone.

[alexander]

I wouldn't blurt out the "3 years" part right away, but you should tell her you'd like your relationship to become more intimate before she's taken. As for how to go about this being smooth . . . I'm not really the guy to talk to about that.

[Trigve]

my advice would be do it the subtle way, don't directly tell her, but try to create situations where there would be these "moments", and see if anything comes out.

 

example, go for a walk with her around a lake or something, and you can stop at a beautiful spot, if you guys are talking, just stay there until the immediate conversation ends, and then turn to look at her in the eyes and smile, etc. just stuff like that, moment that just HAS to be romantic that's more than just two FRIENDS.

 

this can be done anywhere, the lake is just an idea, but mostly these moments can be created through silence by looking in her eyes

 

after a couple times you guys will probably end up kissing if she does have feelings for you, or at least you can tell if there's chemistry, just try to feel the air and judge for yourslef.

 

hope that's helpful