Problem....

[LorenaLee]

I am having some problems with my bf. I cannot trust him and he does nothing to make it better. Is there any way that I can build back trust for him? He has broke my trust more than a few times and I am finding it VERY hard to get through. I dont know what I should do. Should I just give up and find someone that I can trust or keep trying?

[LorenaLee]

I need to add a quick note to that too! I have caught him lying to me and he says "hes not lying to me he just doesnt tell me." ?!

Isn't that lying? If he lies to me that shows he doesn't respect me right?

[S4il]

what does he lie about, to what extent does the disrespecting towards you go too?

is this a everyday thing, you catching him in his lies....>?

 

i need more really to determine what advice i should give..

[LorenaLee]

well i dont know how much cause i cant track his every move i just know that when people talk bad about me he doesnt care...it is hard to explain it is like i feel in my gut that he is doing things behind my back and i dont know about it. He is the type of person with no concence... can trust be built back? these feelings i have are making me stressed OUT!

[DoorMouse]

Hunny, it seems like it's time to move on, if you can't trust him enough to have him tell you the truth, there's probably a lot more he's not telling you or lying to you about. Show him the door and find someone that will be honest to you. My best wishes to you love!