Melissa1978

I have talked to him amd he explained to me that there is nothing going on and he was hurt that I didn't trust him. He said that he would never do anything to hurt me and that he wouldn't cheat on me-with anyone. He also said that he had difficulties making friends throughout his life and she is a true friend. I respect that. I told him that it's just the way she talks to him that really pissed me off. I really felt threatened--he said there is no need to feel that way. I apologized for the way I was acting, and so did he. I've decided to work on trusting him and see what happens. It may take some time, but we've gone this far and I don't think leaving is the answer at this point. I really love my husband and I think that we can overcome this. Again, thanks to all who posted replies. All of your advice helped me see this from another perspective and it cleared my head. I will be posting updates for all who are interested. God bless all!!

Thank you all for your advice. I have been thinking about this and thinking about this.....I have voiced my concerns to him, but as I stated, he just gets upset..I do want to make my marriage work, but if this continues.....there may not be a marraige to work on. Again, thanks to all. I really appreciate it very much!

My husband has an online friend named "Jess". They beacame friends by playing online games. At first, the relationship seemed normal--nothing appeared wrong. Lately, I've noticed that she wants to be more than friends with my husband. Of course, I got upset. My husband says that there's nothing to worry about, but I have reason to doubt him. I have seen the instant messages that they send back and forth. She fantasizes about him day and night. My husband is 29 and knows the ramifications of having a relationship with this girl. However, I really don't trust either one of them right now. I've tried discussing this with my husband, but he just gets mad at me, saying that she's "just a friend". I really love my husband, but I think that "Jess" is trying to split us up and take him for her own once she is of legal age! She lives in Canada, but she is constantly saying that she is going to move down here (we live in Georgia). I'm not sure if this is just a harmless crush or if there is more to it. I really don't know what to do or think. If anone has any advice, please feel free to let me know what I should do. I'm so disrought over this.....