Hi,
My boyfriend and i are toghether 4 years. He is a very outgoing and charming person. I think very flirtasious as well. He doesn't flirt with the pretty girls only but is also very charming to old lady's etc. He is alway the entertainer, and everybody likes to have him around as a party is never dull with him around. He is a performer (singer actor) and has a show on tv as well. He loves attention!
In the last year I have become extremly jealous. I can't stand it if he looks at an other pretty woman (and believe me he does) It hurts me so much i can't describe. I have talked to him about it before but he doesn't seem to think he is doing that, and if he is it's only natural to look at other people. He has the gift of the gab as well and makes me believe i am seeing things that are not there. This makes me even more insecure as I don't know if i am right when i think he is looking at someone else. But really......... even if he is looking, it shouldn't be a problem. He is very nice to me and tells me he loves me. Why does it hurt so much then???!!!
I get very quiet when it happens and am not very nice to him. The quiet treatment as they call it. I hate feeling traped in this emotion and sometimes make me very depressed. I don't want to feel like this anymore. I just want to feel free!! free of this painfull jealousy!! Our relationship would be sooooooo great if I just can let go of this.
Any advise?????
