dashwag

No I dont think you killed any chance! Read my posts and you will see that I have killed all chances!!! But the person that has been dumped needs certain things too. They need time and space. We need answers and closure. They cant be too selfish and not give you anything after spending a long period of time with you!

 

Don't worry about it. Sometimes we just need it to make us feel better.

i would love to know what closesure is? ANYONE PLEASE!!

my ex says she wants closure?[/b]

i know exactly how you feel mate im in the same situation except i have now been single for 4 month and its christams time which seems to makes things worse, just hand in as im am trying and hope that things will get better, i think about my ex all the time and wish she was their but she not, deep down i hope that she feel the same way but who knows, call her and c whats the crack is!! look at this site when ever you seem down thats what i do!!!

what is closure my girlfriend of whom i recently split up with 3 month ago wants closure but i dont understand what she means?

also i want her back more than anything in the world but at the moment we have decided to be friends i havent spoke to her face to face in 3 month, as friends i am hoping to get to know her again and remind her of our past then hopefully win her back, i really dont want anyone else but her!

hello

I split up with my girlfriend because I betrayed her, the worst mistake, of my life and I totally regret it, we where together for 4 year and she is everything to me, we haven't spoke face to face for 3 month and its really killed me!! But she wont get back with me, but today I decided to change tactics if I was going to get her back, I sent her a text message telling her I was moving on, and she replied saying that she was very happy about this and wanted to be friends, should I give space for a bit longer before I start making a move as a friend or should I start straight away. Any advice? Should I try to be a good friend and be there for her when she needs me then tell her how i feel after a couple of month, i have really hurt her does anyone have any advice how i can gain her trust back! Also Christmas is coming up should i get her a present, i have seen a necklace that she might like!!!