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Hey Jenn,
Giving your heart, your trust, your commitment is a big scary step.
Now, you can't be hurt if you don't try, that's fer shure.
I don't blame his feelings, he doesn't want to be fooled or hurt either.
Liking them is one thing, enjoying them, sharing and caring,
but you have nothing to give if you don't first know it and
have it in yourself. Looking for peace, then live peace,
looking for joy, then be joy,
want to trust and be cared about,
then start with yourself,
Love as though you've never been hurt.
Dad
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Be honest,
as a "friend" would be.
Tell her you would like to call sometime,
and would like her number to do just that.
Don't worry her reactions, just do it.
Does the pain ever end?
in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
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You said it,
she has gotten over you, she is moving on, and it moves you
even stronger to hang on, to fight for that "love" you feel.
Now, keep the love for the children separate from the love for her.
Yes, you want to see the kids, and you should do your damnedest to
give them your all, your best, and remain their Dad. No matter when
and how, she is going to be there, all their lives, so deal with it and
learn to separate your feelings for them and her.
Many times we want something even MORE when we know we
can't have it. So when you go there to see the kids, why do you
think that she would have anything for you? Has she not shown
that her interests are not in you anymore?? So why punish
yourself. . . . . Why grasp for the crumbs, is that all you are worth?
NO>
Move on, find some peace in yourself, don't look to her or
anyone else for filling your heart and making you happy,
I'm not saying look to anyone else, that would just cover up
the real issue.
Which is that you were hurt, you were rejected and abandoned
as she has decided that you don't tickle her fancy anymore.
SUX. we know.
sooner you can leave the past right where it belongs, sooner
that you will again be able to sleep, laugh, hope and dream.
Best wishes for you,
Now, give them kids a big HUG and to Hell with her,
Dad