Just 4 weeks ago my boyfriend of 5 years (living together 3) had told me he was board of the relationship and did not see it going anywhere. I had known this deep inside and had tried to talk to him about it in the past a few times but he didn't want to hear tell of us breaking up and he hoped my feelings would change. I felt for 2 1/2 years now that things were going down hill with our communication, sex life and I sometimes pushed him away either physically or in conversation making him feel bad. I used to feel sooo guilty for that but I was so frustrated with what to do about us! We bought a home last December but I think now it was just something for us to focus on at the time besides us. I wanted him in the beginning but I wish I knew where those feelings went?? He was such a great, nice, smart guy. Is there something wrong with me? I was so shocked when he told me it had to be over, I guess because he was the one who wanted to keep trying, but I knew it was a matter of time before he couldn't take anymore... he said he needs to feel wanted etc...
Now after the first week I told him to go to his sisters and stay because it was to hard to live together until we sold our home. But there is this other girl at work he has been talking to a lot and she also felt the same about her man and has kicked him out! She is sooo opposite of him and she also has a bad Rap. I wonder if this is his rebound?? We all live in the same town and even though I knew our relationship was going nowhereI am hurting so bad and I feel like i will never move on ( i wish things were like before) I have moved my stuff to a friends place this weekend and now I have to get rid of our cat and furniture... it's soo hard for me when all he's doing is having fun with her!!
Please help me I need some advice. Thanks
