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thanks finzsoftie and everyone else ... still looking for other perspectives. please, i welcome any feedback. thank you!

we've been together for 9 mos. 8 mos into the relationship - it was awesome. everyone thought we were such the perfect cute couple. people in the supermaket thought we were married. we are both 26 years old. we appeared to have broke up a day after our anniversary. that was month 9. things were really going bad on her end. It was her move to break up. Not Mine. If anything, i've been doing my best to save it. It's been almost 1 1/2 mos since we seen each other from that day. When we were happy, we seen each other on an average of twice a week. If anything, she's the sweetest girl I've ever came accross. Of course, a little wacko at times, but I accepted it. The girl literally moved into my room. I still have her stuff in my room. When I asked her if she wanted it back ... Her response was: "are you in a rush?" i was like "no, not really." Did I send her the wrong message by asking her this. I only asked her this since it's been 3 weeks and we haven't spoken to each other.

Thanks for the reply. Other Opinions/Advice are still welcomed. That seems to be what I'm getting to. My heart is crushed, but I needed to hear it. If anything, it's been crushed. Now my next move is returning all the stuff she has in my room.

Hi everyone, just wondering if someone can give me an insight on what this text message I rec'vd means: "morning . thnx 4 always thinking of me. i know u care n i care 4 u too. im still here 4 u even if we r not together. have a good day." I rec'vd this text in the morning. We talked the night before. She repeatedly, again, told me she'll do anything for me. And she knows I feel deeply for her and would do the same. She also stressed that I can always freely call her. Almost like she's opening the door. This was the first in like 3 weeks since we have talked. Prior to that, she's been having many problems with work/ family/ me / etc... She mentions that she occasionally feels "empty." Like things are not so complete in her life. - Is this text a nice way of saying it's totally over ... It's not so definitive, but am I just being too sympathetic / wishing for too much hope. any help would be much appreciated.