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GH67 said: I will not comment on the lady..what I would like to point out is: You cheated on your wife while you were still married. Your let your "little head" do the thinking and the action. You went from one person and get into another person and still have problems with women. Hey guess what.. do you know who is the constant in this two women? YOU! So.. the problem is not her or your ex. The problem is you. I would like to suggest that stop dating, or want this 2nd woman and invest some time on yourself. Find out who you are, what your values, principles, and MORALs are. Find out what went wrong with your marriage, take an HONEST look at your contributions to the fail marriage because it takes TWO people to be in the relationship and takes TWO to break up. Take back your power as a man and own up to your faults/defects/weakness and make amends if you hurt someone, like yoru ex, or children. Take responsibilities of your failing. Don't blame it on your Ex, or the other woman. After you done all of the HEALING, discovery works on yourself, usually 1 year. Then you can go ahead and date because you will become a BETTER, HEALTHIER, AND EMOTIONALLY FIT PERSON. That is a good quality that a GOOD woman would want from a man. Not a man that has baggages and do not own up to his responsibilities. A Good woman would want to ask this from a man she is dating "what non-monetary contribution are you bringing to the relationship?" I bet she is not asking about sex, and your physical techniques A good woman want a MAN, and not a MALE. Do you know the difference? It takes courage and strength to be a Man. There a lots of MALE out there, not so many MAN. I am not sugar coated either. Take it for what its worth. Suggest reading: "10 stupidest things men do to mess up their lives" "Keep the love that you have" by Harville Hendrix.