first i must say everyone is right... to an extent. (and i know im quite late but this is for those who stumble upon this later) rough sex is normal, as rough as you want, and its still normal, shoving her down and forcing it in her mouth could be rape, but if it's consensual, than its not rape, its exciting. SOOOOOO many people have rape fantasies and its normal. the main thing to do, and this is ANY sexual relationship is talk. because if in ten years from now youve been doing it all wrong, its too late. but dont be afraid to be weird or strange and have fun
