I think you are a very wise man. I am struggling with a similar experience except I am married to the man. I found out after our marriage in January that he has been cheating since the beginning of our relationship. It has been very hard for me because I thought I knew him. Obviously not. My advise to this woman is to cut her losses and run. I wish I had learned these things before I married him. If I did I would have broken up with him immediately and never looked back. I know this hurts now but if you stay he WILL cheat again - its in his nature. My guess is he probably has done this in his past relationships too. Dont be foolish enough to think you are the -special one- who will make him want to turn over a new leaf. It is not in him to do so or this would have never happened to begin with. I found out that my soon to be ex has cheated on every woman he has ever been with and has impregnated several of them. Be smart and kind to yourself. Get out while you still have your health and your sanity.
Blue
