OK, so here's the deal. I was with my g.f. for 5 years. I have had a problem with anxiety for most of that time and it stopped me from going out and doing alot of things with her. So a about 1.5 months ago, she finally couldn't take it anymore and She left one night to go and visit a friend and she didn't come back. I didn't hear from her for 4 days. Finally, l track her down and ask her what the !&^$!. She tells me that because of my nerves, and the fact that my parents didn't like her much, it was over. Just like that. I thought things were going fairly smooth and then BAM! All of the sudden it's over. So like the rest of you, I cried and Moaned and Groaned for like two weeks straight. I felt like dying. And then certain circumstances brought me to another city about 100 miles away. Thankfully, we still talk on the phone like once a week because I told her that if I couldn't have her as a lover, then I sure as hell wasn't going to lose my best friend also. The point to all of this is that i still love her dearly and she knows it. I haven't asked her to get back with me because I just want to lay low for a while. but I am doing much better with my nerves and I am now in a position which would permit me to go out with her to places and not have a major panic attack. I am going to move back to where she is as soon as possible. Not only because she is there but because I love that city. I just need a little advice on how long I should give it before I suggest giving it another go? And since we are still friends, what does that do to the odds. Just lonely in love. Thanks
