hi! im sorry to come here and ask for help but i have no where else to turn to! im 21 years old and have been married to my husband for 2 years and we have known eachother fora a total of 3 years...i really do love him..but i dont feel the same in return. we lack communication and all though i try he doesnt want to. he rather watch tv than do anything else and when i let him know how i feel he gets very angry and says im triing to control him when in fact i am not doing that at all. i just want us to spend time together. he gets angry and is verbally abusive..well thats how he has started now he started throwing things within the house around...he has never hurt me physically though. i dont know what to do..he wont go to counseling> he wont do anything... i need help but i dont know what direction to go into..im scared of being alone i dont want to lose him.....what can i do? please somebody help me!
