My boyfriend and i have been very close now for about 2 years and i have recently moved in with him. Usually I tell him every single thought that pops into my head, he is without doubt my best friend. In the past he has found relationships difficult because he has a medical condition wereby his testosterone levels are abnormally high but he works a lot of it off in the gym 3 times a week
A few weeks ago i found his 'stash' of pornography, DVD's and computer files and it bothered me, maybe it wouldnt bother me so much if it was the odd cheeky picture or something but it seems to me to be a little more exesive than that. Is it really normal for all men to have this much in a 'supposedly' happy fullfilling relationship?
anyway i confronted him and we laughed it off, but i makes me angry really and im frustrated because i cant talk to him about it.
there have been other things too...
he filled out a quiz in a mens health mag about our relationship and he ticked the box which said that his sex life was unsatisfying. we have talked this through and it was seemingly resolved with him saying he just felt asthough his libido had been decreased at the time and that he didnt understand the question that the magazine was asking him properly. its playing on my mind, am i over reacting to these things? im so scared that his eyes are wandering all of the time and im so upset that i cant tell him, i love him so much and i dont want to put him in an embarressed position or anything.
When we were having sex the other day he just stopped and said he was too tired and went to sleep, this bothered me and i cried myself to sleep, this has happened on the odd occasion over the past few months (not often)
i dont know what to do or how to address this
